Let's make a run tonight.

Out of 10 emails received, 8 of it are junk. Am I right? These include adverts, chain letters, invitation to some Friendster-like thingy or even just a series of codings. However today I read one email from the other me, Papan Love. We all started out during our train rides. She's one of my fav people to have intellectual talks with. Adding to that, we had our usual morning giggle with The Muttons.

Well this friend of mines, loves to ponder. And thus she made me ponder too which then I shall share it here as well. =))

Sometimes, upon some things that happen, it might be difficult to come up and apologise, isn't it? To apologise means to admit your wrongdoing and repent, but not neccessarily be forgiven. People make mistakes, even myself in which some I can't even forgive myself. I learnt that it's not about apologising, everyone anyone can do that. Been there, done that. If you want to apologiding for the sake of apologising, make the other person happy or just think that the aftermath will be allright, well I say just forget about it. In some matters, an apology should not even covered, rather speaking up is. But we need to respect those who don't wish to, coz some things are just better left unsaid.

Can a friendship be so cheap and meaningless that conversations held is minimal and no longer mutual? This is a tough one. The above only happens if either one or both parties chooses it to be that way. It takes two hands to make it work. When the freindship is brought upon a great hurdle, everthing is tested. We all have petty quarrels before, some people even say that these quarrels are what makes the tie stronger. However when something beyond petty occur, all hell breaks loose. I feel when conversations held is minimal, it goes to show that the tie is there but it's not like before. Meaning, "You're still my friend, but not that friend before." Get it? Been there and done that, again.

And also replacing who is there for you so easily without even having a sense of losing anything at all. How is that possible in Humans? Another tough one. Firstly, time is the best healing medicine next to laughter. I don't know this but I feel is rather inhuman somehow. In life, we're bound to lose things. From physical treasures to a loved one. Rightfully, it shouldn't be easy for anyone. But somehow some peopel feel that a replacement is what will makes things better. This is possible is humans, it's how we react to it. We can choose to swallow our pride and pretend that everything is ok, avoiding it or just move on.

Goodness, this could just go on and on. Let's sit down for coffee yea?

I'm looking forward to the weekends, a night out!

The Malay in me; duh. I can't help looking like a minah in my skinnies and Havainas.

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