"You must never feel bad about making mistakes. As long as you take the trouble to learn from them. For you often learn more by being wrong for the right reasons than you do by being right for the wrong reasons."
And so, I had to read the above 3 times before I could finally get a full grasp of its meaning. The only real mistake is the one in which we learn nothing from. How it brings pain and regret not to us only, but the people we hold dearly to our hearts.
As I looked back, oh boy I had stumbled a few times. Instead of passing these pebbles, I stumbled yet again. Till now, I'm not sure whether I can forgive myself for that. But at heart I know God is forgiving. Self errors made both intentionally and unintentionally, all I can say is that every man has his follies and that his mistakes are volitional and are the portals of discovery. This totally explained to why curiosity killed the cat
When I see you standing there, watching over me.
And all I can do is try
Often we can achieve an even better result when we stumble yet are willing to start over. Meaning rebuilding that Lego blocks again when it crumbled down earlier. When we don't give up after a mistake. When something doesn't come easily but we throw ourselves into trying. When we're not afraid to appear less than perfectly polished. By prizing heartfulness above faultlessness, we may reap more from our effort because we’re more likely to be changed by it. We learn and grow and are transformed not so much by what we do but by why and how we do it. If that is so, you let your heart do it's 'thing', how abt the people around you you have affected as much as they affect you? Too complicated; in short what about the people whom you have impinged on?
I admit I had carelessly handled them before, not once. And in due course, I even lost some of them. To dwell I no longer will and to be pacified I had never wished, for if one dream should fall and break into a thousand pieces, never be afraid to pick one of those pieces up and begin again.
I may have lost one, but I haven't loose everything.
The strongest of all warriors are these two: Time and Patience.